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Thursday, July 21, 2011

Summer Has Come!

Well, the summer weather has arrived! This summer has been one of the hottest I've ever really experienced up here. It's been a beautiful 80/90 degrees the past week and I LOVE it! I am, however, not so fond of the storms that arrive in the evenings because of the unstable atmosphere! I love the majesty of the thunder and lightning, but not the damage. :) We've just finished cleaning up a tree that fell on our porch and Josh's parents had many trees down earlier this month. It's been... fun.
The little man is growing SOOO fast! Starting to follow directions (and not follow them) very well, talk in his own gibberish - which I find adorable, and he throws his toys like a champ --- the ones that are and are not supposed to be thrown. He is also a magnificent climber. The other day I turned around in the kitchen and he was standing on the tray of his high chair. I have NO idea how in the world he got up there - AND SO FAST! The saying, "I just turned around for one second..." has become a pure reality for me. I think they have some sort of supernatural speed at this age. He has still decided to hold his breath until he turns blue when he gets mad... I'm not fond of this performance and hope he stops doing it quite soon.
It's so funny... I mean to blog so many times and can't believe how fast time flies in between posts. Needless to say, with my climber/thrower/daredevil child... I haven't much time to blog on the computer... but I certainly have many blogs written in my head. I actually have a blog novel typed up in my brain... Wish I had more time to write.

Sadly. I don't.

Sunday, June 19, 2011

I... Will... Update!!!

Really, I will... I mean, I am!

First, the news! If you don't already know... which, is near impossible, because I think I texted, called, or Facebooked basically everyone in the world - not really, just said that for dramatic effect - anyways... the most exciting news that has happened this weekend was that Josh got a letter from the United States, welcoming him! In other words, all this paper work, filing, meeting with the lawyer, etc... has finally paid off! We don't actually have his green card yet, and no, we don't have any idea if it's actually "green" (Ethan)... but we shall be finding out very soon! The process was long, and difficult... mostly because we just didn't know where we would be able to settle. Now, we do! Now, we get to start planning our future. I mean, really planning! We've been waiting so long to know if we'd be able to stay or if we'd have to leave. Thankfully, we are able to stay, and we are excited to finally start seriously planning our future! Josh's green card gives him all the "freedoms" of the United States except the right to vote. If he takes his citizenship test in three years (which, I am hoping he decides to --- he has a good tutor for the test!) :) Yes, I mean me. Then, he'd be allowed to vote. A privilege I think is worth taking the test for! Anyways... I can't go into detail about the others because it is confidential, but we are hopeful! God Bless America! He has certainly blessed us!

Second, the kitchen... is coming along. It was supposed to be a "one weekend" job... but it is now week 3 and we are finally getting to a point where we are almost able to function again! The cabinets are in and up, everything is painted, the cabinets actually have everything in them already... the countertop - that has been the last thing to go in. It's going well, except the fact that the countertop is higher in the back than the other countertop, so we have to move the electrical boxes up a smidgen (thus ruining a bit of my paint job)... and the electrical stuff in that house is so ancient, that we always seem to run into some sort of issue with it. They got it taken care of tonight and all should be good to go... tomorrow maybe?

Next, our little man is growing - growing - growing!!! He is walking and talking (in his own language) and as sweet as ever! We are having SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO much fun with him!!

I have pictures and video to update, but haven't had time to upload anything lately! I'll get to it eventually. Just like updating this blog. It may take a while, but I WILL get to it! Time seriously gets away from me.

Finally - Happy Father's Day!
I am so very thankful for my dad, my father-in-law, and my husband [who is not my father, but the most amazing father in the world (sorry dad, I'm biased - it was bound to happen)]. These three men are definitely the three MOST influential men in my life - and I am unbelievably blessed to be a part of their lives to learn from them and grow through their wisdom, integrity, and honorable character. Thank you dad, dad, and husband for being who you are. I love you!

Thursday, May 26, 2011

Flip Ultra HD

After 18 months of video from my cell phone, we decided it was time to get a better recording device! So, I went thrift-shopping online and was able to get a brand new Flip Ultra HD camcorder for $36.00! I had an Amazon gift card that I used and was able to get money off my purchase a few other ways as well. Needless to say, we're excited to finally have this! Some friends of ours introduced us to the flip... and the rest is history! :) They're cool. You can see some new video on our youtube channel!
Yay!

Wednesday, May 25, 2011

Cooking Tips, Cooking Tips, and More Cooking Tips

I was just surfing the E-Mealz blog and came across this...

Cooking Tips, Cooking Tips, and More Cooking Tips

I always need a few extra cooking tips!
I hope it is insightful!

Monday, May 23, 2011

Wanderlust...

First, I have to let those who made the dump cake... it does not turn out like a fluffy cake. I should have mentioned that when I gave the recipe. It's a pretty thin "cake" that is basically a fruit on the bottom w/crunchyish top kind of cake. Just to clarify. I had a few questions about that.

Now, where do I begin!? There is SO much that I could discuss in today's blog...
The fact that the world did not end... (I was not one of those "followers," by the way, and it makes a sad representation of Christianity when someone falsely prophesies).
The pain it is to be a landlord...
The trouble our president continues to make...
The annoyance of trying to buy a car...
The amazing deals I've been getting lately...
The issue about the rising gas prices...

Gas prices... that makes me think... and it gives me something positive to "blog" today! I think I have a serious disease. Actually, I know I do. I mean, it's plagued me since I was a child, but I've only been able to peg it down recently and figure out what it actually is. "This is a positive blog?" You may be asking...

Well, yes. It is.

This disease I have, I guess, it really is a positive thing. It's called Wanderlusticism. (Yup, made that up myself). Basically, what it is, is a desire to travel to every possible place I can, see as many things I can, and learn about the people, the culture, the differences, etc... It's positive, because it helps me have dreams and goals. Of course, it's a pretty shallow and selfish disease, I do like it and don't want to get any help for it... Not yet, at least.
When I was a little girl, I always wanted to be like my dad (except for being a hunter). I am a definite "daddy's girl." My mom and I are close, but I already know I'm like her... probably too much like her that it clashes sometimes. :) One way that I know I am certainly like my father is his desire to travel and see the world and experience life. I LOVE that about him... and I think, my Wanderlusticism is an inherited disease from him.

I've always loved geography, always LOVED maps, know how to use a compass, and most of all - LOVE traveling... much of that comes from my dad. I know it has. So, when I was little, I decided I wanted to go to every state in the United States - whether it was driving through or staying in that state... I wanted to visit each one before I died. It was kind of my #1 "bucket list" item as a child... and when you're a kid... getting to 50 states in your lifetime seems impossible. :)

I've changed since then. When I was in my late teens, I realized that it was a bit easier to travel. So I gave myself a new deadline... 30. This was all well and good... I had money and I had time. :) I traveled a bit here and there in high school and college and I've been to MANY of the states. Now, however, it's a bit more difficult to travel - it's expensive and takes time I don't really have anymore... but I'm still shooting for my goal.
Last year, I had the amazing opportunity to check off a bunch of states with my husband as we toured the West coast together. AMAZING! We went to Washington, Oregon, California, Nevada, Arizona, Utah, Colorado, Nebraska, Iowa, and Illinois. When I was pregnant, my friend and I went to Colorado - driving through Iowa and Nebraska... and then driving up through Wyoming, South Dakota, and Minnesota. A few years before that, I traveled to Georgia with the Dack family to go on a camping trip... we drove through Illinois, Kentucky, Tennessee, Georgia, up South Carolina, North Carolina, Virginia, Maryland, West Virginia, Indiana, and then home...
A few years before that, I took a road trip with another friend (when in college), and we traveled to Banff in Canada... but went through MN, North Dakota, Montana, and then up to the boarder... A few years before that I traveled to Missouri with some friends that are like family to me... We hit Iowa, Missouri, and even made it to the boarder of Kansas.  When in high school, I traveled with a singing group and also went to Missouri... My senior trip was to the east coast... we hit Washington D.C. (a territory, I know), Pennsylvania, and Ohio (and others I've already mentioned).
I've been to Michigan, New York, and Florida a few times.

So - I have 2 1/2 years left... and this is what needs to be covered:

Out West: Idaho.
Out East: Maine, Vermont, New Hampshire, Massachusetts, Rhode Island, Connecticut, New Jersey, and Delaware.
Down South: New Mexico, Texas, Oklahoma, Arkansas, Mississippi, Alabama, and Louisiana.
Way Far Yonder: Hawaii and Alaska.

Meanwhile, we need to get our little man to Australia to visit his family!

17 states... and for some reason... I'm going back to that daunting feeling of impossibility...
I do love my wanderlusticism, but it has its drawbacks.
Once I'm 30 and finish those 17 states (hopefully) - I will be turning my focus onto bigger things... like, going to the British Isles, backpacking through Europe, Italy for our 25th anniversary, and eventually seeing New Zealand! :) For now, I'm thinking as locally as possible.

I think I need to go back to what a wise friend once told me, "It's not where you go, it's who you're with."
And with that, I say, friends and family are always welcome to travel with me! :)
I blame my dad for this.

Friday, May 20, 2011

Why Pay More??

It is rummage sale season again! I LOVE rummage sales! Today, I'm headed out with the little man and I'm going to meet a friend and her boys - to go RUMMAGING! I'm already a pretty nosey person, so rummage sales just fit my personality. :) I think it is incredibly interesting what great finds you can... well, find... at rummage sales! Today we're going out and I'll be looking for clothes for the little man, outdoor toys, indoor age-appropriate toys, etc...
Some people won't buy from rummage sales. I have my limits as well, but if it can be washed and sanitized... there really isn't any harm in using someone else's leftovers as your treasure! Now, you won't find me buying any undies or anything... but probably most anything else. :)

I'm hoping the little man stays happy for me today. He is always a fantastic little dude... HOWEVER, as of yesterday, I cut out his morning nap. I'm letting him sleep in till 8 this morning and then I'm going to get him up and ready for the day... hoping he will last till 12:30/1pm before he needs his nap! He did not do too well with it yesterday, but we were inside most the day and he didn't use up much energy. Today, however, I'm hoping to have him out and about - getting fresh air (which will keep him awake - BUT make him tired). :) I'm hoping for the best!
I have some awesome video I'll be adding soon. He's been such a chatter box lately! I just have to go through and figure out which ones to post.

OH! On Wednesday we went to the Milwaukee Public Museum... we had such a blast! One of the best parts (which we didn't realize until we got there) was that it was "International Day" so anyone from an international country got in free!! I let the lady at the counter know that Josh was from Australia and he happened to have his license from Australia with him... showed it to her... and that was $12.50 off our entrance fees - plus AJ was free!! WOHOO!!! 

All that to say, why pay more - when you can get it for less!?

Tuesday, May 17, 2011

Milwaukee... Here We Come!

Well, tomorrow we are heading off to Milwaukee. We have some business to attend to, but since our little man will be with us, we're hoping to turn it into a fun day! I've been looking into places to go and things to see... and I'm thinking we'll either go to the Milwaukee County Zoo or the Milwaukee Public Museum. It all depends on the weather. I think I'd be happy with either!

At this present moment, we're at my parent's house and my darling husband is "jamming" on his drums... which, is actually making my chair move as I type. Thus, I can not really concentrate because I can't even hear myself talk through whatever it is I'm thinking about writing...
Now he stopped. I think I'm deaf.

Anyways, it's been an interesting last few weeks. I've been so out of order with my back that things just aren't getting done... yet, life is good.

My sweet friend, Maggie, visited me ALL day on Saturday while Josh hunted and it really got me thinking about my friends... I love my friends. I am so blessed to have a few very very very close women in my life who I can just pour my heart out to and they are so amazingly encouraging when I need encouragement... or they beat me over the head with reality when my head is in the clouds. I think if it was not for my few lady friends, I would be a hermit. Locked away in a tower somewhere... growing out my hair real long... Oh... sorry... Just watched Tangled recently. :) However, I'm not joking... I would be a hermit.

Moving on... I gave AJ a haircut today. Any mom who tries to use a scissors... STOP! Life is SOOOO much simpler with a clippers (thank you, lady friends, who gave me those ideas)!! I cut his hair in 5 minutes, and although he looks like a big boy with his hair cut short... it actually turned out acceptable today. I'm pleased. Now, whether or not Josh lets me touch his hair ever again is another story. It sounds like he liked his first cut... but I haven't cut it since... hmmmmm....

I'm getting old.
Have I mentioned that?
It's actually sinking in though. I'm married... have a child (over the age of 1)... and I'm talking about my back pains, cutting hair, and how I'd like to be a hermit. Ugh.

Well, this old codger is going to get her little guy rugged up and get home... If you've been to Milwaukee and you know some great (preferably free) places to go... please let me know before tomorrow! I'd be happy to have options! 

Friday, May 13, 2011

A Late Night Dack Original...

My blog was down all day... so I'm only able to post this now... wrote it last night...

11:49pm.
Can't Sleep.
No clue why.
Wrote a poem.
Probably terrible:

Husband snoring
Night is Boring
Wish it was raining
so I could hear it pouring.
What's going on
Can't sleep a wink.
Better get some shut-eye
sun will be up b4 I blink
Can't stop my brain
Twirling all these thoughts
Man oh man
This really rots
Writing some words
Not helping much
Keeping me awake
On my iPod touch
What's there to do
Can't close my eyes
Time to go to sleep but
My body don't recognize!
Wish I was tired
Wish I was drowsy
These anti-inflammatories
Make me feel lousy!
The fan finally blowing
So glad it's not snowing
Must get to sleep
B4 the roosters start crowing
Gonna try again
Hoping for some Z's
Can someone just knock me out
Pretty  Pretty Please?


Original
By Dackmum
Created way too late on a Thursday night.
By the way, literary license was taken while writing. If someone knocks me out, this poem does NOT "okay" it in a court of law. Disclaimer: I DO NOT WANT ANYONE TO KNOCK ME OUT. It is not okay. It would make me sad... and I would probably cry (once I gained consciousness).
Also, husband wasn't actually snoring... Just had to find a rhyming word with boring. That came to mind.
Good night.
Hopefully.
Dack Mum <3

Wednesday, May 11, 2011

My E-Mealz Blurb...

So I sprained my lower back. I went to the chiropractor on Monday and he adjusted my back to the point where I could actually stand up straight without having to walk hunched over, crippled in pain. However, because it is sprained, the swelling will continue, and he will need to continue adjusting my back. I am not quite in as much pain as before, but I still can not lift, turn fast, or even walk properly still. The chiropractor says it will take about 4 months to heal completely, but I should be off work (from serving) till Monday (at least) which, then, I will have a reevaluation and see how things are going. All I can say is... ouch.
I am still very much in pain, but it will get better. What "pains" me the most is the fact that I can not lift AJ in and out of his crib properly, put him in his high chair without nearly collapsing, and can not do much house work (laundry is in the basement... can't go up and down that flight of stairs), etc... However, I have still been able to make some meals. I can only stand for a short while, but it's enough time for me to do what I need to do... I blame E-Mealz for that. I'm not getting paid for this blurb about them... it's just a personal recommendation. Each week I have 5 nights worth of meals figured out for me, and a shopping list all ready to go (with an estimated cost of the needed ingredients). It will cost $12.50 for 3 months if you put in the Coupon Code: DAVE. I have included a banner link at the top of my blog because it is worth sharing with others. You can get a family size meal plan or they have meal plans for a family of 2 (which always feeds me, Josh, and AJ... and then Josh's lunch for the next day)... I have two different meal plans for variety because I can pick and choose if I don't like a particular meal (which is INCREDIBLY rare). We have been so surprised with how delicious these meals are. You can go on their website and see a sample meal plan.
It's an incredible blessing to still be able to do at least something for my family even though my back can barely support me. If you live in the U.S. --- you really really should do this!
If you sign up and are confused... leave a comment and I'll help in any way I can! This is a great online help and I know you'll love it if you try it!

Painfully signing off...
Dackmum <3

Saturday, May 7, 2011

My Dangerously Delicious Dish

I must help my Australian family with measurements!! I didn't give converted measurements...

The pie filling...
2 cans - 595 grams each.

The cake mix...
A yellow cake mix (I think I specified the yellow cake in the last blog)

The butter...
1/4 of a pound


As for the 350 degrees - you're on your own!

:)
Dackmum

P.S.
Love going out to all my mommy blog followers!!! Happy Mother's Day!! <3


Dack Mum <3

Friday, May 6, 2011

Dangerously Delicious Dump Cake

My sister-in-law made a dump cake about a month ago... and since that time, I think I've made seven or eight of them (for other people of course)! :) They're SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO good! I thought I'd take a moment to share the recipe... because it's amazing.

1 stick of butter
1 yellow cake mix
2 cans of pie filling (so far, strawberry has been our favorite)

Preheat the oven to 350 degrees.
In a 9x13 pan, "dump" the pie filling and spread evenly.
Next, "dump" the dry yellow cake mix and make sure it too, is spread evenly over the pie filling.
Finally, melt the butter completely and "dump" it all over the top of the cake mix.
Pop it in the oven for 40-50 minutes... pull it out... let it sit for a bit... and ENJOY!
It is one of the easiest and most delicious desserts I've ever made!
We've tried it with blueberry and raspberry as well as strawberry so far. We've heard that it's good with the apple as well. I'm eager to try that next. I'm sure cherry would be good too, but I can't eat cherry pie filling because it gives me migraines (seriously).

Next up... the lil bub... still not great. Boo. I hate it when he is sick. Makes me feel terrible.

On a happy note... it is a beautiful day today! I love when the sun (finally) shines! I'm still cold as usual.
I think I should have been born on the sun. I might - and let me stress MIGHT - have been able to stay warm there. I am ALWAYS cold! I don't know if it's bad circulation or what... but I can't seem to ever stay warm! Maybe the arctic Wausau air has just permeated my body way too much and I just can't get rid of it - even when it warms up here!!
Who knows.

Anyways, got lots to do before the lil man wakes up from his nap.

As I've learned in Spanish (and have known since probably kindergarten),
Adios!

I still don't know how to use the Spanish keys though. :(

Wednesday, May 4, 2011

Never Stop Learning

I think, if I was not married, I would be a "professional student." I have always loved to learn new and interesting things... and I'm usually that strange little bug that always has a dab of informational data to spit out at a dinner party (usually, not having much significance on any conversation). I love to learn. Interestingly enough, I hate reading. I'm one of those listening learners... I can read. :) I do read... but I usually don't enjoy it unless it is fictional and can take me away to far away lands.
Currently, I am enthralled in learning a different language. I am hoping to eventually learn MANY languages, like French, Italian, German, and I'd really like to continue learning Greek, and also learn Hebrew, Arabic (someday), and some other cool languages like Swahili and Portuguese.
For now, I'm learning the ever typical - Spanish. I do not enjoy Spanish. I've never wanted to learn Spanish, but since high school, I've taken Spanish classes, my mother can speak it almost fluently, and I actually understand it... Interestingly, at the Olive Garden, we have a few people in the kitchen who speak Spanish (and only Spanish), and I'd like to be able to converse with them at some point, too. Okay, and selfishly, I'd like to be able to have a conversation with someone (like Josh's auntie who I love) in Spanish without many others knowing what we're talking about! :)
Rosetta Stone has been my plan. I started using it last week and so far so good. I'm learning in ways I never learned Spanish before. I remember from past classes a lot of what I'm being taught now, but I understand it far better... and I'm actually enjoying it! I'm on level 1, Unit 2... it moves a little slow for me... but that's probably the best. It will get ingrained in my brain. I happen to be terribly impatient and making this jive in my brain by taking it slow is a challenge, but will prove to be worth it, I'm sure.
I guess, my main thought of this particular blog is one specific idea - Never Stop Learning! Knowledge and understanding are so vital to life! We can not make informed decisions in life - if we are uninformed! A subject very poignant to me is political science... did you know that the majority of people get their information about government by late night talk shows (that information is from my secular textbook I teach from at the Tech)! I have to forewarn you... that's not good enough information!!! When I say, be informed -- I mean, READ (even if you hate it more than anything) newspapers, books, journals, etc... Listen to the radio and information given there... ask people for their own opinions... listen to BOTH sides... and check the facts!
If you are looking for ultimate Truth - consult the Bible (and if you don't understand what it is saying - consult a Pastor from a Bible believing/teaching church). I will also add... When it comes to government, I say, listen to both sides... However, when it comes to the Bible, I am not willing to listen to any side but a Biblical side when it comes to truth. Sound irrational? It's not. I am not uninformed on other religious views - as I have been purposely learning much about Islam and have studied other religions as well... However, when seeking the truth to apply to my life - I will only consult the Bible.
All this to say - never stop learning.
I am learning all the time. The tombstone will be my diploma. ~ Eartha Kitt

Tuesday, May 3, 2011

I'm A YouTuber Now!

By the way, you can view some uploaded video on my YouTube Channel now!
http://www.youtube.com/dackmum
You can also view some of the videos from my YouTube Channel on the left part of this page!
Yay for technology!

I Just Wanna Be a Momma!

My baby is sick. He's had a 102 + fever the past 2 days. I was sick on Sunday and I think he was just starting to get sick then, too. I was supposed to work tonight, but my momma-instincts have kicked in and I got someone to work for me.
My husband is not incapable of taking care of the little man... however, there is just something inside of me that screams, "I JUST WANNA BE A MOMMA!" Forget work! I've got a baby to take care of!
Thus, not much for posts since Sunday.
Hopefully he'll be getting well soon!
Please pray for him! :)
(And me... still not feeling 100%)

Friday, April 29, 2011

A Road Less Taken by Happy Couples

My high school literature teacher was probably one of my favorite and best teachers I've ever had... Though, I can honestly say that all my high school teachers were phenomenal (as well as my college psychology professor)...
My literature teacher had us do many projects regarding reading and poetry and she would introduce an author to us and tell us all about the history of that person... Where he or she grew up, what kind of family he or she had, etc... and I found myself (day) dreaming of these writers as she introduced them to me. Many lived such interesting lives. Many of them had sad endings. Most of them were recognized posthumously (a word I learned from the same teacher) as a good writer!

That seems to happen a lot with writers and artists! They're no good until their dead! Maybe it's a supply and demand issue... ? ...

Anyways, by learning about these people, I learned to love their work because I felt so attached to them personally that I could understand what they were saying.
There have been many writers whose talent is obvious, and works are adored... but I find absolutely intriguing because I feel like I know them.
Emily Dickinson was so eccentric and wouldn't even come out of her room when she was older! She'd peer out through the door being just slightly cracked open to see people. People would converse with her basically by correspondence! After she died, she had hundreds upon hundreds of poems written and stashed in her closet! Strange... yet it makes the oddity of her writing make so much more sense!
Then, there is Edgar Allan Poe, a creepy, dark-hearted fellow who was poor and strange. He married his cousin. He disappeared for 5 days, showed up somewhere that 5 days later and died alone. His works, however brilliant, were tainted with dark and odd characters, strange circumstances, and tales not any normal human would think up, "Quoth the Raven"... Need I say more?

So I was thinking about poetry today and my favorite authors and I started thinking back to a poem that I have loved since I heard it in that high school literature class. It was written by one of my favorite poets, Robert Frost and it's called:
"The Road Not Taken"

Here it is:

Two roads diverged in a yellow wood,
And sorry I could not travel both
And be one traveler, long I stood
And looked down one as far as I could
To where it bent in the undergrowth;

Then took the other, as just as fair,
And having perhaps the better claim,
Because it was grassy and wanted wear;
Though as for that the passing there
Had worn them really about the same,

And both that morning equally lay
In leaves no step had trodden black.
Oh, I kept the first for another day!
Yet knowing how way leads on to way,
I doubted if I should ever come back.

I shall be telling this with a sigh
Somewhere ages and ages hence:
Two roads diverged in a wood, and I-
I took the one less traveled by,
And that has made all the difference.

Robert Frost had much despair in his life, but he seemed to always reach for the good. I like him. I respect him. I find so much soul in his poetry.

However... My most favorite poet is actually a pair of poets... The Brownings.
Elizabeth Barrett Browning has one of the most simple and sweet poems that I adore... It's called, "How Do I Love Thee" and it has always been a favorite of mine!
Are you ready for it?


How do I love thee? Let me count the ways.
I love thee to the depth and breadth and height
My soul can reach, when feeling out of sight
For the ends of being and ideal grace.
I love thee to the level of every day's
Most quiet need, by sun and candle-light.
I love thee freely, as men strive for right.
I love thee purely, as they turn from praise.
I love thee with the passion put to use
In my old griefs, and with my childhood's faith.
I love thee with a love I seemed to lose
With my lost saints. I love thee with the breath,
Smiles, tears, of all my life; and, if God choose,
I shall but love thee better after death.

That's a beautiful poem... but to understand that Elizabeth Browning was about as much in love with her husband as he was in love with her makes it all the better! He would often write love poems back to her - just as sweet! They were a perfect match and a beautiful happy couple... which; I think, makes the poem all the more powerful!

Tonight I shall go to sleep and dream of roads less taken by happy couples.

Good night!

Dack Mum <3

MY Royal Wedding...

Well, I did it... I got up at 4am to watch the "Royal Wedding" and I'd have to say that my wedding was certainly very VERY comparable. "How?" You may ask... well, let me explain.

The Royal Wedding had a prince... who is balding... still, many would probably consider him "handsome"... probably because they only see dollar signs in place of the missing hair.
MY wedding... also had a prince... who is NOT balding and is truly handsome both inside and out. Hahahaha -- by the way, no dollar signs blinding my view, either. :)

The Royal Wedding had a bunch of people from far away lands come to watch the big event...
Amazing! So did MY wedding! We were so blessed to have many of Josh's family members travel all the way from Australia (and many friends travel from other states --- such as California, [you know who you are] and the East Coast).

The Royal Wedding had a bride who wore a beautiful dress...
Go figure!! I was a bride... and I'd have to say, I liked my dress more! :)

The Royal Wedding had a bride who married an Englishman...
Lovely... I did as well!! English... and Australian (of course, he doesn't often claim he's English).
    Hahahaha! Except for the time we were on our first date and I said I always wanted to date and Englishman... and his reply was, "well, I'm as English as they come!" He must have really liked me to admit that! :)

The Royal Wedding took forever just to get the bride to the church!!!
Interestingly enough... it seemed to take forever just to get married! I was engaged a year! Talk about a long time before getting to the church! Sheesh!

The Royal Wedding was broadcast internationally over the Internet (which is how I viewed it)...
Once again - my wedding was as well (mostly to people in England and Australia)!! Incredible!

The Royal Wedding had the groom's brother as the "best man"
I guess that's pretty common... cause at MY wedding... My Prince had his brother as the best man!

The Royal Wedding probably cost a LOT of money... most likely paid for by the parents...
Funny that! Mine too!!!

The Royal Wedding had music played by beautiful violinists and musicians.
Again, I could not have been blessed with better music, played (and sung) by dear friends.

Wow... Methinks I had a pretty Royal Wedding! :)

There were, however, a few differences...

The Royal Wedding had Elton John singing Hymns...
My wedding... did not.
Sorry, I can't help but crack up laughing at just the idea of him singing "Guide Me Oh Thou Great Jehovah"!!! (I was watching though, he didn't know the words AT ALL).

Number two... I gave my husband a ring at the actual event. Enough said.
The Royal Wedding had the Abby Bells chiming like crazy! Like my mother-in-law said on Facebook... what were we thinking to leave that out!? So, though this is a difference, I think (had we thought of it) we would have found a way to get those bells ringing!!! :)

The Royal Wedding had horse drawn carriages taking them from one place to another...
Again, we would have had the same, really... but in the end of December - that just isn't an option.

The Royal Wedding had a big finishing touch by having the Bride and Groom wave on a balcony to over a million on-lookers...
We, however, ducked out quietly... without saying goodbye to any one of our many guests.

I'm sure there are a few other differences, but I think the similarities are numerous enough that I can honestly claim that I had my own Royal Wedding... and that is what I shall believe... one thing I know for sure... Royal Wedding or not... I feel like a Queen with the husband I have!

Thursday, April 28, 2011

A Tip on Tipping...

Let me just inform the world that servants at a restaurant get paid $2.33 an hour. Yes, that's legal...

Tips are waitresses livelihood.

If you decide to eat a whole bunch of food, make your server run to the kitchen over a million times, and use up table space for more than 3 grueling hours while you chit-chat to your girlfriends who you haven't seen for 10 years...

Please... Please remember that if you had a great server... a $3.00 tip is an insult. No matter how much you tell her, "you were the best waitress we've ever had," she won't think you mean it if you leave a lousy tip.

In fact, 10% is NOT considered a "good" tip, if you had great service...

My advice...
Bad service... Like really bad... Let her know you're unhappy so she can fix whatever is wrong. If she doesn't care, talk to her manager.
Good service... at least 15%.
Great service... Definitely more than 20%... You decide... but make her believe you!

Maybe you think I'm outrageous in my tipping scale, but since becoming a server... I now appreciate them far more!!! I tip WAY better now, too!!

Serving can be good money if you're in the right restaurant and you've got the right personality... but it really comes down to how gracious, "the master" wants to be to his "servant."

The End.

Dack Mum <3

Royal Wedding

http://www.officialroyalwedding2011.org/

Okay, I'm not going to lie. I totally and completely wish I was in London to watch the "Royal Wedding." I have always been a fan of England (not always a fan of some members of the royal family), but certainly interested in the political differences between England and the U.S. --- Anyways, I was sitting in a hair salon in Naples, FL about two weeks ago and its 'sister salon' is actually in London... so I was able to read London tabloids that were sent to Naples, FL. Yes, I understand, I could have looked it up online.
Anyways, I got into an article about the royal family and the wedding coming up... and I truly want to see it. First, I think it will be interesting. Second, I have always had an obsession with England.
So, with those two reasons, I find it good enough to want to watch it. Unfortunately, we don't have tv.

But! I found out they're going to stream it online!!! Sweet!

Yes. I will be watching it.

When is it again?


Today Is The Day!

I am excited to begin this new blog. I have been a blogger in times past, but I haven't been real good about it as of late. UNTIL NOW! I suppose, there are just too many things bottled up in my brain that I would be better off posting... so I don't have to keep them stored (they take up too much space).
Thus, here I am!

I am DACK MUM and I'm happy to be blogging once again!

Now, I was thinking about what magnificent thing I was going to grab from my mental capacity and delight my readers with today... and then it struck me.

I have no readers.
So, today's post really is inconsequential in every possible way.
That's why I've decided to post about one particular thing on my mind at this moment.

Nutella.

I was not brought up in Nutella ways. You know, as a child, being spoiled with nutella on toast in the morning. However, whoever invented the idea of chocolate spread... is absolutely genius. I was dipping my son's animal crackers in them today (...he was not eating them... I was --- though, he was watching me, and licking his lips... but eating his ham sandwich instead... sorry, rabbit trail...) and I got thinking... I should blog about how much I love Nutella! Which, believe it or not. Nutella, and how much I adore its chocolaty goodness, inspired me to blog again. If you have never tried it... you are missing out. I mean, really, really missing out. It's in most grocery stores near the peanut butter section usually.
Pop a piece of toast in the toaster, throw some butter on it (when it's out of the toaster), and spread on a thick, gooey layer of Nutella... Amazing. Honestly, delicious.
Is it possible to need a 12-step program to keep away from this stuff? I think so.

That is all I have to say for the time being.
Maybe once I have gained a reader or two... or possibly a fellow Nutella addict, I will expound on my love of Nutella.
Since nobody is reading it anyway... I'm just going to leave it there.

Have a nice day (if you're out there).
Signing off...
Dack Mum <3